No Country for Women

Douchebag Duo - Mulayam and Abu

Douchebag Duo – Mulayam Singh Yadav and Abu Azmi

What on earth is going on here?

First Mulayam Singh Yadav made the remarks of how “boys will be boys” when it comes to rape, and perpetrated the rape myth of how women “friendzone” men and level false rape charges against them. Then Abu Azmi followed suit (for worse) by remarking how survivors are too guilty in rape and should be hanged along with the rapist. And then he had the nerve, after spewing all this bronze age rubbish, to say that “here, nothing happens to the woman..”

(Oh by the way, slight heads up Abu, considering we’re a secular nation – well at least in theory anyway – is it okay if I don’t give a shit about your sickening misogyny, which you present in the guise of “religious belief”? Thank you.)

These are not even worth commenting on. Actually, there is nothing to comment on, you just read the remarks of these two and get depressed. Or queasy. Or both. It’s out there in plain sight.

However, the most horrifying part about this is, how they have absolutely no shame or reservations in making in these remarks. Let that be anyone, politicians or authorities. And this is despite having two of the most publicized rape cases all over the world last year couple of years. Last year, the defense lawyer in the much publicized Delhi Gang rape case, openly said that he would burn his daughter if she were to have premarital sex and urged other parents to adopt the attitude. This is one among more blatantly chilling examples of how deep rape culture and misogyny runs here.

The problem, aside from having such misogynistic windbags like these peddling rape culture, is primarily the social setting that breeds rape culture which gives them the confidence that they could get away with such remarks. They don’t even try to make an effort to hide their vile misogyny. Because they very well know that this is not something that people would react to all that much, and even if they react, they are confident that people will move on. And sadly, they would be right.

We are disproportionately outraged over everything. Over politics. Over religion. Even over cricketers who fail to perform. But what about women? Why should we really care about them? Why should we care about addressing a social system which gives douchebags like these excellent platform to openly promote rape culture without shame?

I guess it’s about time we’ve openly admitted this.

Women, we don’t give a shit about you. Thank you very much.

Temporary Hiatus

First of all, I’m alive!

Well, it’s been sometime since I’ve blogged on.. well anything. I had initially started the blog as merely a place to rant or muse or whatever you’d prefer to call it, but I guess at least it’s gotten more “popular” than that. So thanks everyone, I guess? At least I am obliged to appreciate the time you’ve put in to read my half assed posts and all your good comments that’s encouraged me to not burn this blog down 🙂

Anywho, were was I? Ahem, yeah about me not having blogged for a while. Yes, well I can’t make any excuses about being busy with my life, which I wasn’t – at least not in a conventional sense anyway. I guess I just had to take a break. Sometimes I open the blog to write something and it gets too depressing. Sometimes I begin to write something and it seems like a bad idea. Sometimes it’s just your garden variety laziness. And so on. You get the drill.

Anyway does that mean I’m done with this and spare you of this misery? Well no, not really. Just don’t want to be mechanical or forced, maintaining a blog for the sake of it as a chore. But I shall sure resume blogging – hopefully in the near future 🙂

Thanks for all your support, once again 🙂